Room Parent


Thank you for volunteering to be a Room Parent in your child’s classroom.  The Room Parent is an integral link in the chain of communication from the teacher & PTO to all the other parents in the class.  Here are the primary responsibilities of a Room Parent:

  • Create a classroom roster & update throughout the year as needed; provide copy to school’s Lead Room Parent
  • Communicate with other parents on behalf of teacher & PTO (weekly emails)
  • Coordinate classroom parties (Holiday & Year End)
  • Collect money for teacher gifts, teacher yearbook, party expenses and other activities
  • Main contributor & collector of class photos for the yearbook
  • Coordinate classroom game booth for Spring Carniva

Initially, there will be a meeting with the school’s Lead Room Parent.  This is primarily for first-time Room Parents.  This initial training meeting will help you understand the responsibilities of a Room Parent and your Lead Room Parent will continue to be your guide throughout the year.

At the beginning of the school year, you should meet with your teacher to understand how she wants to utilize the Room Parent and to understand any preferences s/he has for classroom events & volunteering.  Establishing an on-going, weekly dialogue with the teacher is a must. Maintain weekly check-ins with the teacher to see what s/he may need.  This can range from parent volunteers to specific items that need to be purchased for a project.

You will also communicate with various PTO Board Members who may ask that you pass along info to class parents.  It’s critical that parents be made aware of upcoming fundraisers and PTO events.  As such, the Lead Room Parent will send you a weekly email with all relevant info for the following week and you should forward it along to your class, including all attachments.  Before forwarding, you can add any classroom-specific info at the top of the email so parents receive one weekly digest.  Be sure to BCC all parents on room parent emails; parent emails should not be shared without explicit approval.


If it agreed upon with the teacher that TWO parents will share the responsibility of being the Room Parent, it is strongly recommended that one of the parents be the Lead Room Parent and that there is a clearly defined, published list of job duties for each of the Room Parents.  This will alleviate confusion for the teacher and for parents in the room.



At the beginning of the year, send out a roster solicitation form via your teacher to all students.  Once you collect all roster info, you should consolidate into one page and forward on to the school’s Lead Room Parent.


The Room Parent should forward the weekly PTO emails, along with any classroom specific information to all class parents.  It is suggested that you create an email distribution list for all weekly Room Parent emails to ensure everyone is included.  Be sure to stay up to date regarding classroom & PTO events as you will be the main source of information for the other parents in the room.


Classroom parties are limited to two:  one during the winter holiday, and one on the last day of school.  The Room Parent will coordinate the parties and consult the teacher for any preferences s/he has.

Usually, families are asked to contribute an item for the party (food, serving ware, decorations, drinks, etc).  It’s a good idea to set up a sign up sheet on Sign Up Genius so parents don’t duplicate items.  You’ll also need volunteers to assist with set up and clean up.  Please check with your teacher prior to the first party regarding any student food allergies.


Room Parents coordinate the collection of donations for teacher/aide gifts.  This is a great solution for parents, to give towards one large gift rather than many smaller gifts.  Make sure that the parent who donates includes his/her name with the donation so that you can keep track of who has contributed.  It is suggested that the donations be applied to a gift card/certificate.  Be aware that LAUSD policy prohibits cash gifts to teachers.  Additionally, you may use a portion of the money to purchase a card for all students/parents to sign and include an enclosure that indicates which families contributed.

You can choose to collect money for events as they approach, or to ask for a lump sum donation upfront to cover the foreseeable gift expenses (teacher birthday, holiday gift, end-of-year gift and Teacher Appreciation Week).  Average donations range from $10-$20 per family for each gift.

At the beginning of the year, room parents ask for donations of $10 per family to cover the teacher’s out-of-pocket supply costs.


Room Parents are asked to upload classroom photos taken throughout the year to the Calabash yearbook website, “TreeRing”, as well as encourage other parents to do the same.  Each room has its own folder to which you can upload pictures.  Doing this regularly will help your classroom parents as they design their custom pages and help you if you choose to make custom pages in your teacher’s book.


Our Spring Carnival will be held on Saturday, March 30th.  Each Room Parent will be responsible for working with class parents to come up with an idea for a class booth, as well as coordinate the building of the booth and purchase of all required materials.   Room Parents will coordinate the set upand tear down of their classroom booth.


  • Room Parents/volunteers/visitors may not bring siblings to the classroom.
  • Room Parents and ongoing classroom volunteers must have a TB clearance on file in the office.
  • Room Parents/volunteers/visitors must SIGN IN and SIGN OUT through the main office BEFORE going to the classroom during school hours.

Questions:  Contact Lead Room Parent Claire Borsheim at